Be careful what you wish for coz It might just come true...

I am sure you have heard of the saying " Be careful what you wish for, coz you might just get it"

I never quite understood what that meant...

until recently...

I speak to many people daily, all of them have their own special wishes and wants as do all of us.
They all say if only this would come true or if I meet my soul mate oh how wonderful life would be

or would it?

Because I have also seen those wishes come true and I have also seen them not work because one or both parties almost can't believe their wish came true and end up pushing each other away by causing unnecessary drama daily. Always testing to see if it is real! Even though they know deep down
it is. Why do people self sabotage? Lie and hide in such deep love relationships?

I believe because they are truly afraid, of losing control and getting hurt... maybe they were always the 'player' and fear now that they have truly found The One... now they may get hurt... and almost by fearing that situation.. they end up self sabotaging this beautiful romance soul mate connection by creating that situation ALL on their own because they focus so much on it.. rather than just GOING WITH FLOW and stop the confusion, stop lying stop & hiding and playing games.. & stop testing their loved one daily...

Maybe God's teaching them a lesson too.. saying ok you wanted to meet you true Soul Mate here she is... can you deal with it? Are you man enough? Have you learnt to be true?  Because you see with these deep soul connections.. you are SO similar.. that it brings out ALL of your inner most feelings, doubts and fears about yourself.. and it exposes them all.. it is THE POINT of this type of union. To clear the crap from the past.. make YOU FACE YOUR TRUE SELF.. and grow in every way and truly become your full potential as a soul as a person.. not that fake stuff human call façade.

It's YOUR KARMA to learn and truly sort your issues out this time around and actually act mature and balanced and not all over the place and learn to communicate properly and stop fearing, doubting causing drama just to test that person or gage a reaction because you are SO damn baffled GOD listened and made your wish come true after all this time.

Also don't expect SO much from your Loved One, when in fact you haven't offered anything to them other than words.. words.. and more words... you have to be REALLY honest with yourself and say... maybe it's you.. maybe you have caused this. Stop blaming the other.. because believe you me.. ONCE and ONLY once YOU ARE truly who you are and REAL and stop fantasy crap and just be REAL and talk as yourself and say your truth express your truth in a real way .. WOW. You will have everything you desire from whom you love... until then.. go with the flow and just chill...

Why not just accept this blessing and stop ruining it with your erratic behaviour?

I see this happen often... and I know it is also because this type of high love union really causes somewhat of a sudden spiritual awakening and thus a spiritual super storm in your life... so actually a lot of the confusion  is to do with that...

The answer?

STAY CALM.... BE IN THE MOMENT .. RAISE YOUR VIBRATION ... GO WITH THE  FLOW ... ACCEPT .. BE HAPPY.. . BE NICE.. DON'T CAUSE DRAMA .. DON'T FEAR .. DON'T DOUBT.. DON'T LIE.. KEEP IT REAL...  FOCUS ON POSITIVES ... AND THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK .. BE REAL .. BE YOU .. BE TRUE ... BE KIND. .. BE BALANCED ... LEARN YOUR LESSONS.. GROW ... BE ... LOVE..

Peace ~

Reanna xoxo

How to stop thinking about someone

A lot of my clients always tell me they can't get someone out of their head even though it was an ex that they haven't spoken to in years.

Are you experiencing this right now? Would you like to stop thinking about him / her?

Well, the reason you are over thinking about he /she is because you still have energy cords with them and a connection which isn't positive. IF you have a natural lovely and tender love between you that's a kind of connection that won't be intrusive and you won't find yourself OVERLY thinking of that person an that kind of natural love can NEVER change

BUT if you find yourself with intrusive thoughts of another this is NOT healthy. And you really should stop this...

It's nice to think of a loved one and have them sort of at the back of the mind with sweet loving feelings with it. But you should never be obsessing about ANYONE. If you are, here is what you can do to stop thinking about that person, in 3 simple steps:


1) If you suddenly thinking of someone and it doesn't make you feel good. See that person in front of you as in your imagination or mind's eye. Then see a door in between you and as you go to close the door on this person say this "Ok ( their name ) I realise we may be connecting. But I AM not ready for this. Please leave Now." and then shut the door on them. Keep doing  this every time  you think of this person in a way which feels like it is being imposed on you and isn't nice and they soon get the message.

2) See this person in front of you about 40 feet away in front... then imagine any energy cord between you and ask the universe to help you and your guardians.. to help you cut these cords with the best intention and for your highest good. Just imagine scissors in your hand or you can use real scissors in your hand and make the motion of the cord cutting for extra effect do this daily for positive results.

3 ) IGNORE them. Yes that easy. Once you have done the first 2 steps you will find it much easier to simply ignore this person anytime they cross your thoughts. Also be fully in the moment as this helps to be focused and allows you to get rid of unnecessary stuff, thoughts and distractions. Never give them attention don't follow the thoughts anywhere... just allow them to be then pass then simply forget and ignore.

Top 10 Cool Stuff To Expect When You Raise Your Vibration

So you've read my previous articles and watched the vids on You Tube about how to prepare before raising your vibration, how to raise your vibration and now I am going to discuss what to expect whilst you are doing this..

I like to call this phase: the transition

This is always a weird time. So I am going to outline some of the things or phenomena you can expect to happen whilst you are transiting from the old lower timeline to the new higher vibe.

As you can imagine this is somewhat an unsettling time for most. So the first thing to make sure is that you are grounded and fully staying in the moment especially when you may be feeling slightly wobbly when in between two vibrations / dimension

Top 10 cool stuff to expect once you raise your vibration:

1) Time Lapses and time speeding up really fast ( this happens when you have just changed your vibration to a huger one.. so it shouldn't last long. But it's quite cool when it happens. So don't let it worry you. It's normal. Higher vibes generally move faster so hence when your make that transition, you will feel the speed of time but soon you get used to it) You may even notice a time lapse. For example, time jumps anything up to few hours in a matter of seconds, as in by looking at your watch etc)

2) Serious De Javu  ( Ok this one can be a bit odd you feel you have been there before or you can tell what is about to happen and it does. Again this is normal and I feel it has do with the fact that in fact time doesn't exist and when you are in between vibration you can experience a past timeline of your own current life or even a past life timeline.. it's all cool.)

3) You see strange looking people that don't look quite like what you knew before ( for example you may see people who look human but much bigger, and taller so up 7 foot or they just have a different feel to them or may feel alien to you, again don't be afraid it's just the new vibration version of the people you knew before. I noticed around me people kept changing heights in different realities, some looking more younger and vibrant in higher dimensions too)

4) You don't sleep or eat as much and you operate great so it doesn't adversely  affect you ( this is really cool. As you raise your vibration.. as this is  a higher faster dimension everything is therefore lighter so less need for food and sleep your body and mind operate more efficiently  in higher vibes so naturally less need of sleep too.)

5) You feel inspired and know exactly what you want to do in life whereas before you could have been more sluggish and confused

6) you have a love for all living beings nature the universe and find it hard to get angry or upset at the things you easily got angry about before

7) You love yourself more you are kinder to yourself and see yourself in a better light

8) People around you and in general are nicer, friendlier and the whether is generally nicer, brighter even in winter

9) You meet more and more new people who look so familiar to you yet you don't know them

10) You love life and want to help others.

A sure way to find your true path

Ever wondered if you're on the right path?

Maybe your life is a bit stagnated right now. You know you want to make a change but not quite sure if that's the right way or if it's the right path.

Well there's a sure way to find out if you're on the right path or not. And this is through Synchronicity. There are many signs daily which indicate to us if what we're doing is right or wrong. Many of us miss this. I guess most are so busy they don't pay attention to synchronicity. But once you are aware that it even is there, you begin to notice the signs more. And the more you notice it, the stronger it gets.

So how does it work?


So once you have raised your vibration properly, synchronicity will also get stronger anyway because it's all about being at one and in synch with the Universe, so obviously once you vibrate higher, the signs from universe also stronger and more noticeable.

Case study ( hypothetical)

Say for example, you're looking to make a career change a change of job, because your current job is a bit stagnated and not going anywhere. Say for this article's sake, you want to go into a different industry or do something new retrain but not sure what. So you are currently a Graphic Designer but you want to retrain to be a Lawyer, so very different. And naturally have your concerns about this big change...

If this is the 'right' choice for you. And you are in sync and at one with yourself, you will notice more signs from the universe telling you a new career in law will be good for you and the right choice. So suddenly everywhere you go, you notice more people talking about legal matters, it could be just passers by you hear talking. You see more adverts around or on TV for legal claim businesses. You turn on the TV and there's legal drama which hasn't been on TV for years. You then get a friend asking you if you know of any good lawyers because they need some legal help with something... you then come across an article in a magazine about a person who will be much similar to you in gender or looks who had a successful career change which was a drastically different to what they were doing before.. these are all signs and they're always there.. you just need to start noticing and being aware to 'hear' them.

So you see, this is how synchronicity works. But also it works the other way too, so if something is NOT right, then the signs won't be there in sync with what you're thinking and or your may have lots of difficulty in making that change which are signs telling you, wrong way!

It's a beautiful l thing and it makes me smile daily.

How to deal with undesirables

Today I will discuss some simple tips on how to deal with undesirables!

What do  I mean by this? Undesirables can be basically any person  or situation that doesn't resonate with your vibration. So once you have raised your vibration, how do you then deal with people who haven't? By that I mean people who are constantly rude, obnoxious and basically you don't want to be around them because they are negative.

Once you raise your vibration, you should see less and less of these sort of people but perhaps sometimes you may find there are still a few. First things first; NEVER treat these people as they are. ALWAYS treat them and the situation as you are. So as the you who is higher vibe more positive person. Once you have raised your vibration enough, you really won't be bothered by such people anyway. So it should be easy to just ignore them, which is the best thing to do actually.

If you can't ignore them, then you can certainly limit your contact as much as possible and if you have to talk to them because they're a colleague or something, then best way to deal with them is these 5 simple tips:

1) stand at least 5 feet away from them - this is because the human aura is around 4 feet or so surrounding the body.. so you certainly don't want to stand anywhere close to their aura ( because they're negative)

2) cross your legs and cross you arms and place them over the top of your stomach - this is to help close your chakra system whilst you are talking to this person so again you aren't affected by any negative projections or thoughts etc from this person

3) don't look directly at them - so look just above their heads rather than into their eyes ( again this is make sure the conversation is very short and not getting into any depths)

4) Place your feet away from the direction of this person - this just sends a subliminal message that you really don't have any time to stay and talk and this conversation will be very short

5) Don't react to any stupid or negative comments they may say - just make your excuses and do something else and better yet leave the conversation/situation


It's all about managing daily life whilst raising vibrations. And making sure you're not affected or deterred by others' behaviours in general or towards you ~

Sacred Universal Language Of...

                                                              ... Sacred Geometry!

Sacred Geometry is the true language of the Universe. If you look at nature you will find examples of this in all of nature.. even our own finger prints are  Sacred Geometry of sorts.

They also speak right through to the good the true part of the human mind and soul. It is especially good for raising vibrations.. because it is the true language of the Universe, the sacred languages of unconditional love, peace and faith.

Even if you look crop circles... they're true works of art.. and all represent the typical shapes of sacred geometry.  Though its messages are not understood by many, they're certainly pleasant to the eye regardless.

Once you have raised your vibrations and study sacred geometry shapes.. whether in pattern in nature or otherwise.. you can't help but feel a deep feeling of peace and being at one. If you are still resonating lower, your reaction to these might be one of repulsion.. because that is the reaction of the lower vibe energies which could be around. Because of the divine nature of these shapes so raise your vibration.. even by looking at these.. until you feel that feeling of peace and unconditional love by looking at them.. then you know you have raised your vibration.

You can also use Crystal Grids.. by placing different healing crystals like hematite and rose quarts and others similar on different point of a sacred geometry shape this can help disperse negative energy and cleanse the room/house and persons within it and help instead allow for positive higher vibrating frequency to flow better. But remember the only way anything which is resonating with higher frequency works is through good and pure intentions and coming from a place of good. Here's an example:

Here are some of my favourite sacred geometry shapes, including those in nature as well. They're so beautiful to look at:

                                                   
                                                           
                                                   The first one is a crop circle:

How to stop mind chatter

 

 

Here's s simple trick to stop all that chit chat in your mind - have peace of mind and stay fully in the present. This also reduces anxiety levels .

 

 

It's so quick and simple the only thing is it does take daily practice and persistence.

 

 

Ok, so you find yourself over thinking, thinking about the past, what you did today or why did someone say something and what you might do tomorrow.. you go over and over things in your head and it all becomes a bit chaotic and there's really no need for it!

 

Here's a simple way to stop it:

 

First thing you need for this is be 'aware' and 'mindful' that you are actually overthinking and that mind chatter is getting too much.

 

once you are aware of it... all you have to do is stop yourself. And focus 'only' on your breathing. focus on your heartbeat. These are the only two things you should focus on ...

it takes some practice.. BUT.. once you learn to do properly after some practice, it really works.

 

This helps to ground you therefore helps with anxiety as well.

This also helps you to connect with this moment and be 'fully' present in the 'now'.

 

Once you do this properly.. and you can do it as long as you need to.. but at least of 3-5 minutes, you will feel instantly better, calmer and all that silly over thinking or mind chatter reduced greatly and after time you will be able to fully stop the mind chatter and instead have a quiet and calm mind focused and fully present in the moment.

 

This exercise is so simple but done properly it has many positive effects. It helps to be truly at one with oneself and this is a state of neutral bliss!

aahh lovely!

 

Reanna