I am sure you have heard of the saying " Be careful what you wish for, coz you might just get it"
I never quite understood what that meant...
until recently...
I speak to many people daily, all of them have their own special wishes and wants as do all of us.
They all say if only this would come true or if I meet my soul mate oh how wonderful life would be
or would it?
Because I have also seen those wishes come true and I have also seen them not work because one or both parties almost can't believe their wish came true and end up pushing each other away by causing unnecessary drama daily. Always testing to see if it is real! Even though they know deep down
it is. Why do people self sabotage? Lie and hide in such deep love relationships?
I believe because they are truly afraid, of losing control and getting hurt... maybe they were always the 'player' and fear now that they have truly found The One... now they may get hurt... and almost by fearing that situation.. they end up self sabotaging this beautiful romance soul mate connection by creating that situation ALL on their own because they focus so much on it.. rather than just GOING WITH FLOW and stop the confusion, stop lying stop & hiding and playing games.. & stop testing their loved one daily...
Maybe God's teaching them a lesson too.. saying ok you wanted to meet you true Soul Mate here she is... can you deal with it? Are you man enough? Have you learnt to be true? Because you see with these deep soul connections.. you are SO similar.. that it brings out ALL of your inner most feelings, doubts and fears about yourself.. and it exposes them all.. it is THE POINT of this type of union. To clear the crap from the past.. make YOU FACE YOUR TRUE SELF.. and grow in every way and truly become your full potential as a soul as a person.. not that fake stuff human call façade.
It's YOUR KARMA to learn and truly sort your issues out this time around and actually act mature and balanced and not all over the place and learn to communicate properly and stop fearing, doubting causing drama just to test that person or gage a reaction because you are SO damn baffled GOD listened and made your wish come true after all this time.
Also don't expect SO much from your Loved One, when in fact you haven't offered anything to them other than words.. words.. and more words... you have to be REALLY honest with yourself and say... maybe it's you.. maybe you have caused this. Stop blaming the other.. because believe you me.. ONCE and ONLY once YOU ARE truly who you are and REAL and stop fantasy crap and just be REAL and talk as yourself and say your truth express your truth in a real way .. WOW. You will have everything you desire from whom you love... until then.. go with the flow and just chill...
Why not just accept this blessing and stop ruining it with your erratic behaviour?
I see this happen often... and I know it is also because this type of high love union really causes somewhat of a sudden spiritual awakening and thus a spiritual super storm in your life... so actually a lot of the confusion is to do with that...
The answer?
STAY CALM.... BE IN THE MOMENT .. RAISE YOUR VIBRATION ... GO WITH THE FLOW ... ACCEPT .. BE HAPPY.. . BE NICE.. DON'T CAUSE DRAMA .. DON'T FEAR .. DON'T DOUBT.. DON'T LIE.. KEEP IT REAL... FOCUS ON POSITIVES ... AND THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK .. BE REAL .. BE YOU .. BE TRUE ... BE KIND. .. BE BALANCED ... LEARN YOUR LESSONS.. GROW ... BE ... LOVE..
Peace ~
Reanna xoxo
